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JJasonWallace252 years ago

Chat requests and messages never stop on Fetlife no matter if you fill in your profile or put up a pic. Women are money-hungry and they make it through chatting. There are a few sites that don't hire women to chat, like ***** (it's relatively easy to have a real date there with a genuine girl, especially if you chose an age-appropriate lady whose photos are not over photo-shopped). But Fetlife company operates on this nasty business model where they cooperate with local agencies which offer women a compensation for correspondence. Otherwise, why would 18 year old glamorous models bombard a 50 year old truck-driver with sexy messages? Don't believe this sweet illusion fellows!

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qqwerty10810913 years ago

This is an extremely safe website, but it does have adult content on it, I would not let a kid in any circ*mstance on this website.

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Skylor4 years ago

fetlife.com is a p*rn site. NOT for children! Contains sexually-explicit material.

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kenilchattiero7 years ago

It's one of the largest communities for Kinky people.You find real people, with real interests. Real events, real Kinky stuff!I never thought there could be such a well done community online for free with no surprises!The site is well done. The verification by phone is accurate.Uploading pictures and videos works like a charm!

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OOldMango7 years ago

ben using the site for over a year, no scams or "you must have gold membership to-" except videos, othervise its essentially just facebook for fetishists.

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ttardismark8 years ago

The site is safe, well run, and user friendly. It explores sexuality, and give people interested in the BDSM and D/s lifestyles and practices a place to meet and discuss. In my opinion, it is the best site of it's kind out there.

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ClaudioVaz8 years ago

p*rn/adult content. Improper content, misleading links, annoying popup ads. It may have phishing apps, malware, adware and/or spyware. Not suitable for kids.

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wwot_427359 years ago

A very adult dating website, and (even moreso than other dating sites) definitely not one to let your children see. Most features are free, including messaging other people, but some more advanced features including videos require a subscription of $5/month, or a one-off payment of $240 for life. But it does what it promises so I guess I can't complain. :)

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DDMind10 years ago

Fetish Social/Dating site, be aware sexual fetishes will be discussed frankly.

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WalkingThrone11 years ago

I love this site!! Im addicted, if this is your cup of tea then let me tell you its alot better than collarme or mydungeonspace and hey you dont have to pay like alt or ***** its wonderful!! Its not perfect , please show me a site that is but its pretty darn close in my opinion. If your not into bdsm dont look at it you will be offended.

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nnandhnaileys11 years ago

It's a great site. Obviously, it has adult content, but they seem to do a good job at keeping the kids off of it as much as possible. One of the best adult sites around.

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JJorunn Kronstad11 years ago

It is interesting site but with adult content.

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TThe Indigo Petal11 years ago

An adult site, a social network where adults who identify with the lifestyle within the D/s community, may be safe and freely communicate and express themselves! Excellently rendered with ads that are tastefully and obviously seperated, and beautiful design.

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ScepticCritical12 years ago

English: International BDSM community for adults. No p*rnsite. Various groups about fetishes. Some advanced services requier payment.German: Internationale BDSM Community für Erwachsene. Kein p*rnoportal. Verschiedene Gruppen zu diversen Fetischen. Einige Dienste sind kostenpflichtig.

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hhypnorocker12 years ago

An adult site but very friendly and great admin oversight. Best Alt-s3x site around and if you're into BDSM you'll love fetlife!

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HHDom12 years ago

This site is a social network type of site for adults who are into kink, BDSM, D/s and M/s relationships and the like. It fills that role very well. It also has many, many groups that specialize in various areas of interest. These groups serve to connect people as well as to pass on information and education.If you are into these areas of interest and activity this is a good site to join. However, if these areas and frank discussion of sexuality offends you it would be best if you just pass it by.

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PPuddinTame12 years ago

People are stepping around the issue by describing this as an 'adult site'. It goes a bit further than that. The fetishes include eating feces, eating animal feces, being beaten while bound in a garbage bag, 'blood soaked blowj*bs', 'grabbed by the hair to suck a horse co*ck' and so on. This site is an extreme example of potential wish fulfillment by a community with few fetters, and some of the 'fantasies' espoused are actually illegal (bestial*ty, actual real slavery, forcing people to eat feces). I'm not voting against it, and this comment is marked as 'Other', but I just wanted to leave this note here in case people thought this was a 'normal' adult site.

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sslightlyfluffy12 years ago

I think that says it all. I also think the folks running the site do as excellent a job as possible at making the site as child safety as they can in that it's restricted to adult users. And anyone allowing their children access to adult content that they find objectionable should be held responsible.

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HellsArmyBrat12 years ago

This is an excellent site. The people tend to be friendly and open-minded, and you can learn a lot from them. I've also made a couple of great real-life friends by interacting here. Now, a word on "child safety" and sites like these. Yes, children should not be browsing the internet all by themselves, but to say that a site like this is not safe for children simply because if its "adult content" is just plain ludicrous. Children are not born with intrinsic problems with sexuality. Many adults have those problems because we were steadily indoctrinated into impractical, mainstream ways of thought which create to repressive, unhealthy views of sex and the body. Children only emulate the behaviors of their parents, and they would not grow up to have such problems with concepts of human nature and personal preference if they were not raised that way. Honestly, people. There is a big difference between our various cultural neuroses and reality.

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Javelina13 years ago

This is a question and answer, and online community site for people who have (or want to learn more about) non-mainstream sexual activities. It is NOT a pay-for-p*rn site at all. But there is certainly nudity and conversation about sexual topics, so this site is absolutely unsuitable for children. For adults who are interested, it is a well-organized, moderator run website.The privacy policy is interesting. It is a very good one, because it assure members that their information will not be disclosed (otherwise no one would ever join), and is very specific about exactly how member information is or is not used. Specifically: All passwords are stored encrypted, SSL connection and extensive measures, not specified, taken to avoid XSS incidents.

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